Our children are growing up with access to so much more than we had. As parents, we naturally want to give our children a better life than we had, but do we realise what that actually does to our children?
- They believe they are entitled
- They believe they can get anything they want at any time
- They do not feel the need to be responsible, why? Because Mom/Dad will replace it or fix it
- They do not appreciate what they have nor do they see the need to think of others
A few months ago, a group of us decided to put a few items together and give to those less fortunate than ourselves, anyone we felt drawn to give to. I decided to go with my children for them to see and understand that there are people who do not have what they have. I thought it best to bless street children, who were closer in age to my children, so I got my children to take items from their wardrobes that were warm to give. We went together and met with the street kids and my children gave them the clothes. We met with a number of young boys and girls, and they were so grateful for the few items that they got. Without even asking my children what they experienced, they were already planning on getting more clothes to give more children, and planning on doing it every month. They realised how much they have and how much these kids actually need, which to me was an amazing lesson. They are more grateful for what they have and they pray for the homeless every day without fail now.
Our children must learn to give back:
- To realise that they do not live in a privileged bubble and ignore what is around them;
- To learn to think of others and not just themselves;
- To learn from a young age to give back and to understand the importance of giving back (to be compassionate);
- To appreciate what they have and to be responsible with their belongings;
- To raise responsible citizens of this world that will grow to make this world a better place by becoming more considerate of others and our actions
How they ended up on the streets or struggling, we may never know, but it is not for us to judge, but to help. Give them clothes, pay their school fees, give them books to read, or pray with them. It may seem small to you, but just one of those actions can make a huge difference to someone, and it will also show your child that sometimes it doesn't have to be a huge gift or gesture, it could be something small that they can do on their own.
We can't change the world immediately, but through small acts of kindness and responsibility, we can make a difference. We must work to raise considerate children who think of others and who show love in any way they can. The way the world turns out is in our hands, let us be conscious of what we teach our children.
Till Next Monday,
Stay Blessed and safe
Tafi
#beingaparent
#givingback
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